It was long ago, so I suppose I can now write about this troubling, eerie tragedy. However, my heart still races with the recollection, despite the passing of 25+ years.
It isn’t the only mysterious Catholic priest suicide to occur in the U.S. For example, in Illinois, Father Waclaw Jamroz died from “suicide by 20+ knife wounds” in 2009.
But this incident was so hushed, you probably haven’t heard about it. Maybe it was kept quiet out of respect for the deceased and his family. Maybe it truly was a suicide. I sure couldn’t say one way or the other. It is, after all, entirely possible to crawl into a trunk–via one’s own free will–and close it. Even during a hot, Midwestern summer.
At that point, there would have been no turning back for him, assuming the trunk had no safety-release mechanism. And, given the year, it probably didn’t.
But why? Why would he choose such a horrific, lengthy manner of death? That’s the main reason I referred to this as a “mysterious” suicide. And why would he buy a one-way ticket to eternal misery?
“Why?” was also my reaction back then. His pitiable appearance and the general atmosphere reeked of something nefarious, either of this world or not. I wondered about the bigger picture but quickly pushed away my curiosity. It felt wrong to even think about it. I know it sounds silly, but, on a spiritual level, I felt threatened by the darkness surrounding his demise.
The story was simple. He’d driven down from a nearby state but didn’t reach his destination. Four days after the intended arrival date, his people called the authorities in our county. They were concerned about his safety. He’d been depressed, they said.
His car was located in a farmer’s field, and, as you know, his body was in the trunk. Four sweltering days of decomp did a number on the poor guy’s remains, but one particular ghastly thing is imprinted in my visual memory. It appeared he’d died while trying to force open the lid. Dear God, he changed his mind, I thought.
No autopsy was performed. The death was ruled a suicide, and nobody challenged it. In that region, during those days, most folks weren’t big on speaking up or questioning certain things. Besides, there was no vast web in which to vent anonymously.
His remains were retrieved, prepped, and returned–and that was that.
Recently, with a semi-comfortable distance between then and now, I’ve felt safer about pondering his whole story. But pondering is probably the only thing I’ll accomplish.